"Find a way or make a way."
You're playing a video game called life right now.
Your character is not a victim.
You are a high-agency character in this story.
When you encounter obstacles, you're moving in the right direction.
When you don't, you're going backward...
The game is meant to grow your character. Level up their:
physical body
mental strength
spiritual sense
emotional control
The shit in your way is testing these qualities. They aren't to be met with disdain or sorrow.
Find a way or make a way through... Not an excuse.
The further you go, the stronger the obstacles... Will you grow with them...
Or will future obstacles crush you?
The choice is always yours.