Relationships are difficult when you coach in Force… Because they aren’t true relationships at all…
Initially what I’m about to say might confuse you, I promise to clear that up by the end of this one…
Force sees the player.
Power ‘sees’ the player.
Let’s use the movie again to explain a coaching principle and a life principle… How to love.
Force Sees
At the beginning of the movie, the Force people (literally everyone but Hiccup) see dragons as flesh only. Where Force sees the flesh, Power sees the spirit.
Everything the tribe knows about a Night Fury dragon is on the Fear level of 100. The rules are simple:
That kind of dragon is the nastiest of them all
Don’t ever engage one
When you coach at the level of 100 and a great relationship with a player or dragon requires the coach to be at 500 or up… Well, that’s going to cause some issues…
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